I just finished Vanessa Diffenbaugh's
The Language of Flowers and really enjoyed it. About family, love and redemption, it also was interesting because it introduced me to the meaning behind flowers from the Victorian era. Giving someone a flower wasn't as simple as picking out a pretty color or shape. Each flower conveyed a very specific meaning. So next time you are giving a gift, it might be worth seeing whether you're offering up love or anger. If offered up Peony, you may wonder whether someone is angry at you. However, to convey your love, what exact type do you mean? Everlasting love? Then baby's breath.Ardent love? Cactus. Love despite the odds? Dogwood. Maternal love? Moss. You see? It's a lot trickier than you may think standing at the florists. I'd suggest reading the entire book, but I have decided to share the dictionary here:
Abutilon (Abutilon) . . .
Meditation
Acacia (Acacia) . . .
Secret love
Acanthus (Acanthus) . . . A
rtifice
Agapanthus (Agapanthus) . . .
Love
letter
Allium (Allium) . . .
Prosperity
Almond blossom (Amygdalus
communis) . . .
Indiscretion
Aloe (Aloe vera) . . .
Grief
Alstroemeria (Alstroemeria) . . .
Devotion
Alyssum (Lobularia maritima) . . .
Worth
beyond beauty
Amaranth (Amaranthus) . . .
Immortality
Amaryllis (Hippeastrum) . . .
Pride
Anemone (Anemone) . . .
Forsaken
Angelica (Angelica pachycarpa) . . .
Inspiration
Apple (Malus domestica) . . .
Temptation
Apple blossom (Malus domestica) . . .
Preference
Aster (Aster) . . .
Patience
Azalea (Rhododendron) . . .
Fragile and
ephemeral passion
Baby’s breath (Gypsophila paniculata) . . .
Everlasting love
Bachelor’s button (Centaurea cyanus) . . .
Single blessedness
Basil (Ocimum basilicum) . . .
Hate
Bay leaf (Laurus nobilis) . . .
I change but
in death
Begonia (Begonia) . . .
Caution
Bellflower (Campanula) . . .
Gratitude
Bells of Ireland (Moluccella laevis) . . .
Good luck
Bird of paradise (Strelitzia reginae) . . .
Magnificence
Blackberry (Rubus) . . .
Envy
Black-eyed Susan (Rudbeckia) . . .
Justice
Bluebell (Hyacinthoides non-scripta) . . .
Constancy
Bougainvillea (Bougainvillea
spectabilis) . . .
Passion
Bouvardia (Bouvardia) . . .
Enthusiasm
Broom (Cytisus) . . .
Humility
Buttercup (Ranunculus acris) . . .
Ingratitude
Cabbage (Brassica oleracea) . . .
Profit
Cactus (Opuntia) . . .
Ardent love
Calla lily (Zantedeschia aethiopica) . . .
Modesty
Camellia (Camellia) . . .
My destiny is in
your hands
Candytuft (Iberis) . . .
Indifference
Canterbury bells (Campanula
medium) . . .
Gratitude
Carnation, pink (Dianthus
caryophyllus) . . .
I will never forget
you
Carnation, red (Dianthus
caryophyllus) . . .
My heart breaks
Carnation, striped (Dianthus
caryophyllus) . . .
I cannot be with
you
Carnation, white (Dianthus
caryophyllus) . . .
Sweet and lovely
Carnation, yellow (Dianthus
caryophyllus) . . .
Disdain
Celandine (Chelidonium majus) . . .
Joys
to come
Chamomile (Matricaria recutita) . . .
Energy in adversity
Cherry blossom (Prunus cerasus) . . .
Impermanence
Chervil (Anthriscus) . . .
Sincerity
Chestnuts (Castanea sativa) . . .
Do me
justice
Chicory (Cichorium intybus) . . .
Frugality
Chrysanthemum (Chrysanthemum) . . .
Truth
Cinquefoil (Potentilla) . . .
Beloved
daughter
Clematis (Clematis) . . .
Poverty
Clove (Syzygium aromaticum) . . .
I have
loved you and you have not
known it
Clover, white (Trifolium) . . .
Think
of me
Cockscomb (Celosia) . . .
Affectation
Columbine (Aquilegia) . . .
Desertion
Coreopsis (Coreopsis) . . .
Always
cheerful
Coriander (Coriandrum sativum) . . .
Hidden worth
Corn (Zea mays) . . .
Riches
Cosmos (Cosmos bipinnatus) . . .
Joy in
love and life
Cowslip (Primula veris) . . .
Pensiveness
Crab-apple blossom (Malus
hupehensis) . . .
Ill-tempered
Cranberry (Vaccinium) . . .
Cure for
heartache
Crocus (Crocus) . . .
Youthful gladness
Currant (Ribes) . . .
Thy frown will
kill me
Cyclamen (Cyclamen) . . .
Timid hope
Cypress (Cupressus) . . .
Mourning
Daffodil (Narcissus) . . .
New beginnings
Dahlia (Dahlia) . . .
Dignity
Daisy (Bellis) . . .
Innocence
Daisy, Gerber (Gerbera) . . .
Cheerfulness
Dandelion (Taraxacum) . . .
Rustic oracle
Daphne (Daphne) . . . I
would not have
you otherwise
Daylily (Hemerocallis) . . .
Coquetry
Delphinium (Delphinium) . . .
Levity
Dianthus (Dianthus) . . .
Make haste
Dittany (Dictamnus albus) . . .
Childbirth
Dogwood (Cornus) . . .
Love
undiminished by adversity
Dragon plant (Dracaena) . . .
You are
near a snare
Edelweiss (Leontopodium alpinum) . . .
Noble courage
Elder (Sambucus) . . .
Compassion
Eucalyptus (Eucalyptus) . . .
Protection
Euphorbia (Euphorbia) . . .
Persistence
Evening primrose (Oenothera biennis) . . .
Inconstancy
Everlasting pea (Lathyrus latifolius) . . .
Lasting pleasure
Fennel (Foeniculum vulgare) . . .
Strength
Fern (Polypodiophyta) . . .
Sincerity
Fern, maidenhair (Adiantum capillusveneris)
. . .
Secrecy
Feverfew (Tanacetum parthenium) . . .
Warmth
Fig (Ficus carica) . . .
Argument
Flax (Linum usitatissimum) . . .
I feel
your kindness
Forget-me-not (Myosotis) . . .
Forget
me not
Forsythia (Forsythia) . . .
Anticipation
Foxglove (Digitalis purpurea) . . .
Insincerity
Freesia (Freesia) . . .
Lasting friendship
Fuchsia (Fuchsia) . . .
Humble love
Gardenia (Gardenia) . . .
Refinement
Gentian (Gentiana) . . .
Intrinsic worth
Geranium, oak-leaf (Pelargonium) . . .
True friendship
Geranium, pencil-leaf (Pelargonium) . . .
Ingenuity
Geranium, scarlet (Pelargonium) . . .
Stupidity
Geranium, wild (Pelargonium) . . .
Steadfast piety
Ginger (Zingiber) . . .
Strength
Gladiolus (Gladiolus) . . .
You pierce my
heart
Goldenrod (Solidago) . . .
Careful
encouragement
Grapevine (Vitis vinifera) . . .
Abundance
Grass (Poaceae) . . .
Submission
Hawthorn (Crataegus monogyna) . . .
Hope
Hazel (Corylus) . . .
Reconciliation
Heath (Erica) . . .
Solitude
Heather (Calluna vulgaris) . . .
Protection
Helenium (Helenium) . . .
Tears
Heliotrope (Heliotropium) . . .
Devoted
affection
Hibiscus (Hibiscus) . . .
Delicate
beauty
Holly (Ilex) . . .
Foresight
Hollyhock (Alcea) . . .
Ambition
Honesty (Lunaria annua) . . .
Honesty
Honeysuckle (Lonicera) . . .
Devotion
Hyacinth, blue (Hyacinthus orientalis) . . .
Constancy
Hyacinth, purple (Hyacinthus
orientalis) . . .
Please
forgive me
Hyacinth, white (Hyacinthus
orientalis) . . .
Beauty
Hydrangea (Hydrangea) . . .
Dispassion
Ice plant (Carpobrotus chilensis) . . .
Your
looks freeze me
Impatiens (Impatiens) . . .
Impatience
Iris (Iris) . . .
Message
Ivy (Hedera helix) . . .
Fidelity
Jacob’s ladder (Polemonium) . . .
Come
down
Jasmine, Carolina (Gelsemium
sempervirens) . . .
Separation
Jasmine, Indian (Jasminum
multiflorum) . . .
Attachment
Jasmine, white (Jasminum officinale) . . .
Amiability
Jonquil (Narcissus jonquilla) . . . Desire
Laburnum (Laburnum anagyroides) . . .
Pensive beauty
Lady’s slipper (Cypripedium) . . .
Capricious beauty
Lantana (Lantana) . . .
Rigor
Larch (Larix decidua) . . .
Audacity
Larkspur (Consolida) . . .
Lightness
Laurel (Laurus nobilis) . . .
Glory and
success
Lavender (Lavandula) . . .
Mistrust
Lemon (Citrus limon) . . .
Zest
Lemon blossom (Citrus limon) . . .
Discretion
Lettuce (Lactuca sativa) . . .
Coldheartedness
Liatris (Liatris) . . .
I will try again
Lichen (Parmelia) . . .
Dejection
Lilac (Syringa) . . .
First emotions of love
Lily (Lilum) . . .
Majesty
Lily of the valley (Convallaria majalis) . . .
Return of happiness
Linden tree (Tilia) . . .
Conjugal love
Lisianthus (Eustoma) . . .
Appreciation
Lobelia (Lobelia) . . .
Malevolence
Lotus (Nelumbo nucifera) . . .
Purity
Love-in-a-mist (Nigella damascena) . . .
Perplexity
Love-lies-bleeding (Amaranthus
caudatus) . . .
Hopeless but not
helpless
Lungwort (Pulmonaria) . . .
You are my
life
Lupine (Lupinus) . . .
Imagination
Magnolia (Magnolia) . . .
Dignity
Marigold (Calendula) . . .
Grief
Marjoram (Origanum) . . .
Blushes
Marsh marigold (Caltha palustris) . . .
Desire for riches
Meadow saffron (Colchicum
autumnale) . . .
My best days are
past
Meadowsweet (Filipendula ulmaria) . . .
Uselessness
Michealmas daisy (Aster amellus) . . .
Farewell
Mignonette (Reseda odorata) . . .
Your
qualities surpass your charms
Mimosa (Mimosa) . . .
Sensitivity
Mistletoe (Viscum) . . .
I surmount all
obstacles
Mock orange (Pittosporum
undulatum) . . .
Counterfeit
Monkshood (Aconitum) . . .
Chivalry
Morning glory (Ipomoea) . . .
Coquetry
Moss (Bryopsida) . . .
Maternal love
Mullein (Verbascum) . . .
Take courage
Mustard (Brassica) . . .
I am hurt
Myrtle (Myrtus) . . .
Love
Narcissus (Narcissus) . . .
Self-love
Nasturtium (Tropaeolum majus) . . .
Patriotism
Nettle (Urtica) . . .
Cruelty
Oats (Avena sativa) . . .
The witching
soul of music
Oleander (Nerium oleander) . . .
Beware
Olive (Olea europaea) . . .
Peace
Orange (Citrus sinensis) . . .
Generosity
Orange blossom (Citrus sinensis) . . .
Your purity equals your loveliness
Orchid (Orchidaceae) . . .
Refined beauty
Oregano (Origanum vulgare) . . . Joy
Pansy (Viola) . . .
Think of me
Parsley (Petroselinum crispum) . . .
Festivity
Passionflower (Passiflora) . . .
Faith
Peach (Prunus persica) . . .
Your charms
are unequaled
Peach blossom (Prunus persica) . . .
I am
your captive
Pear (Pyrus) . . .
Affection
Pear blossom (Pyrus) . . .
Comfort
Peony (Paeonia) . . .
Anger
Peppermint (Mentha) . . .
Warmth of
feeling
Periwinkle (Vinca minor) . . .
Tender
recollections
Persimmon (Diospyros kaki) . . .
Bury
me amid nature’s beauty
Petunia (Petunia) . . .
Your presence
soothes me
Phlox (Phlox) . . .
Our souls are united
Pineapple (Ananas comosus) . . .
You are
perfect
Pink (Dianthus) . . .
Pure love
Plum (Prunus domestica) . . .
Keep your
promises
Poinsettia (Euphorbia pulcherrima) . . .
Be of good cheer
Polyanthus (Primula) . . .
Confidence
Pomegranate (Punica granatum) . . .
Foolishness
Pomegranate blossom (Punica
granatum) . . .
Mature elegance
Poplar, black (Populus nigra) . . .
Courage
Poplar, white (Populus alba) . . .
Time
Poppy (Papaver) . . .
Fantastic
extravagance
Potato (Solanum tuberosum) . . .
Benevolence
Potato vine (Solanum jasminoides) . . .
You are delicious
Primrose (Primula) . . .
Childhood
Protea (Protea) . . .
Courage
Purple coneflower (Echinacea
purpurea) . . .
Strength and health
Queen Anne’s lace (Ammi majus) . . .
Fantasy
Quince (Cydonia oblonga) . . .
Temptation
Ranunculus (Ranunculus asiaticus) . . .
You are radiant with charms
Raspberry (Rubus) . . .
Remorse
Redbud (Cercis) . . .
Betrayal
Rhododendron (Rhododendron) . . .
Beware
Rhubarb (Rheum) . . .
Advice
Rose, burgundy (Rosa) . . .
Unconscious
beauty
Rose, moss (Rosa) . . .
Confession of love
Rose, orange (Rosa) . . .
Fascination
Rose, pale peach (Rosa) . . .
Modesty
Rose, pink (Rosa) . . .
Grace
Rose, purple (Rosa) . . .
Enchantment
Rose, red (Rosa) . . .
Love
Rose, white (Rosa) . . .
A heart
unacquainted with love
Rose, yellow (Rosa) . . .
Infidelity
Rosemary (Rosmarinus officinalis) . . .
Remembrance
Saffron (Crocus sativus) . . .
Beware of
excess
Sage (Salvia officinalis) . . .
Good health
and long life
Saint-John’s-wort (Hypericum
perforatum) . . .
Superstition
Saxifraga (Saxifraga) . . .
Affection
Scabiosa (Scabiosa) . . .
Unfortunate
love
Scarlet Pimpernel (Anagallis arvensis) . . .
Change
Snapdragon (Antirrhinum majus) . . .
Presumption
Snowdrop (Galanthus) . . .
Consolation
and hope
Sorrel (Rumex acetosa) . . .
Parental
affection
Speedwell (Veronica) . . .
Fidelity
Spirea (Spiraea) . . .
Victory
Star-of-Bethlehem
(Ornithogalum umbellatum) . . .
Purity
Starwort (Stellaria) . . .
Welcome
Stephanotis (Stephanotis floribunda) . . .
Happiness in marriage
Stock (Malcolmia maritima) . . .
You will
always be beautiful to me
Stonecrop (Sedum) . . .
Tranquility
Strawberry (Fragaria) . . .
Perfection
Sunflower (Helianthus annuus) . . .
False
riches
Sweet briar (Rosa rubiginosa) . . .
Simplicity
Sweet pea (Lathyrus odoratus) . . .
Delicate pleasures
Sweet William (Dianthus barbatus) . . .
Gallantry
Tansy (Tanacetum) . . .
I declare war
against you
Thistle, common (Cirsium) . . .
Misanthropy
Thrift (Armeria) . . .
Sympathy
Thyme (Thymus) . . .
Activity
Trachelium (Trachelium) . . .
Neglected
beauty
Trillium (Trillium) . . .
Modest beauty
Trumpet vine (Campsis radicans) . . .
Fame
Tuberose (Polianthes tuberosa) . . .
Dangerous pleasures
Tulip (Tulipa) . . .
Declaration of love
Turnip (Brassica rapa) . . .
Charity
Verbena (Verbena) . . .
Pray for me
Vetch (Vicia) . . .
I cling to thee
Violet (Viola) . . .
Modest worth
Wallflower (Cheiranthus) . . .
Fidelity in
adversity
Water lily (Nymphaea) . . .
Purity of
heart
Waxflower (Hoya) . . .
Susceptibility
Wheat (Triticum) . . .
Prosperity
White Monte Casino (Aster) . . .
Patience
Willow herb (Epilobium) . . .
Pretension
Winter cherry (Physalis alkekengi) . . .
Deception
Wisteria (Wisteria) . . .
Welcome
Witch hazel (Hamamelis) . . .
A spell
Yarrow (Achillea millefolium) . . .
Cure
for a broken heart
Zinnia (Zinnia) . . .
I mourn your
absence
|
Peace |
So there you have it, the language of flowers. Good luck with your arrangements and gift giving(please stay away from yellow roses).
Until next time,
Danny